I have spoken to several people who are in a relationship and when I ask them what their deal-breaker is, they tell me without missing words, “Cheating!”. Although there are a few that cheating isn’t the deal-breaker for them that isn’t our concern in this article. Some say when a partner cheats on them it makes them feel less of themselves; it leaves a negative print on them and that’s why they can never condone a cheating partner. What about you? Can you condone a cheating partner? Anyways, in this article, we will be looking at cheating signs in a relationship.

Cheating Signs in A Relationship

1. When Communication Starts to Drop

The unspoken rule in a relationship is having good communication. That is why it is a relationship I’m the first place. No communication, no relationship. When your partner starts breaking communication by give excuses why he or she might be able to keep up with the communication.

You often hear excuses like, “ I have been busy”, “ I don’t feel like it.” He or she might even avoid you guys having a face to face communication. This is a sign that your partner might be seeing someone else.

2. Your Partner Becomes Unreachable Sometime

When you notice that there is a particular period you can’t reach your partner maybe via phone calls or so. It is a sign that he is cheating on you or if you are living together, he uses his phone more often at a particular time, answers a particular call and goes far away or chats for a long period at a particular time.

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3. When your Partner Gets Angry at Every Small Thing

When one is tired of a relationship or seeing someone else one might get irritated by one’s partner easily. He or she starts to find faults in every little thing you do. Man, it is a sign that he or she is seeing someone else. Situations like this can make even your good gesture seem bad.

4. When Their Friends Get Uncomfortable Around You

There is a likelihood that the person being cheated on might be the last person to find out whereas friends are always in the know. When you notice that or her friends are acting funny around you and they try to avoid you by all means. It is a sign that your man or woman is cheating on you.

5. Emotional Intimacy Begins to Die

When a partner cheats or is cheating, he or she begins to detach from the real partner emotionally. If you notice that the strain in your emotional Intimacy and you’re certain that it isn’t caused by exhaustion from work. It is glaring that he or she is seeing someone else. He or she wouldn’t want to touch you not to talk or to kiss you.

Anything that looks like intimacy with you he or she runs off. Just know that your relationship is about to end and another is about to begin.

6. When Your Partner Begins to Compare

If your partner starts a new habit of comparing you with someone that he calls his friend or acquaintance. Gee, he or she may be cheating on you perhaps with that person. “ Dress like this, this is how this person wears her dress and it is classy. Why not you do this? Can’t you see how this so so the person does his thing? This is one of the big cheating signs in a relationship.

7. When They Start Using their phone secretly

There is a sudden change in how your partner uses his or her phone. He or she starts to guard the phone as life depends on it. You can’t even touch it to check the time, you might be pounced on.

This is a sign that he or she is hiding someone from you.

8. When They Get Close with Someone of the Opporsite Sex

You notice that all of a sudden your partner is becoming very close to someone of his or her opposite sex. They talk for long periods, exchange text messages and are all over each other on social media. He or she might even be colleagues. This could be that you’re being cheated on.

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9. Their Schedule Becomes Different

Most people in a relationship know the schedule of their partners. How so? When you give a round down of your day’s activities every day, your partner becomes accustomed to your schedule.

When you notice that you can’t keep tabs on his or her activities anymore. They changed their schedules and you aren’t even aware. It is a sign that there is someone new and the change of schedule is to fit the person in their lives.

10. When They Demand More Intimacy

If your partner starts to demand more sex in a relationship, don’t be deceived and think he or she has more cravings for you ( maybe in some situations) but most times your partner is trying to cover up a lie so he or she tries to do more so you wouldn’t suspect.

If your partner starts to look less interested in sex then it is obvious that he or she is seeing someone else and they aren’t interested in making love to you anymore.

Conclusion

We have talked about signs of a cheating partner in a relationship but we cannot tell you what to do or what not to do. Just do whatever brings you peace and always learn to love yourself. It is important. You should check out these quotes that will help motivate your relationship.

Hope you had fun reading this?